In life you meet a lot of people. Some stick around for a lifetime and others don’t. At the end of the day your always faced with the question, was it me or was it them? If you know without a shadow of a doubt that you gave your all unselfishly and willingly in the relationship then great! It’s their loss and there is no need to cry over someone who doesn’t appreciate you.

Now, if you were the one who never gave enough, never listen enough or never cared enough, then lets hope you’ve learned a lesson or two. Ever heard the saying, “You don’t know what you got till it’s gone? ” That isn’t always true. Sometimes people are very aware of what they have, they just take it for granted. Amazingly enough, people can show you how they feel about you without even saying a word and you can see it…if your paying attention.

Don’t be afraid to listen from the other side. If anything, take note of what ‘s been said and reflect on it. The worst thing you can do is carry the same mindset from one relationship to the next. Whatever relationship it was, it doesn’t have to keep you from creating better and new ones. The Bible says in 1Corinthians 13:7, “Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance,” (New Living Translation).

Love the people in your life and show them how much you care. Just because one relationship failed, it doesn’t mean the next one will. If you have issues or insecurities, learn how to get over them. In the end, no one wants to be alone… not even you.